I'm too sexy...

Last week I was up in the middle of the night and did some online shopping. The only problem with this is this week when the stuff I bought came, i had already forgotten most of what I had ordered, since I was kinda half asleep when I placed the order. Well I opened the packages, and had ordered SIXTEEN pairs of underwear. Yeah I know, a little overkill, but c'mon they were cute! Anyways thought I would post pics of a couple of them so you could see why i went on a nutso underwear shopping spree... ( and no the guys did not come with the underwear LOL)

So that's some of what I bought, along with some other clothes.

In other news, the game I was working on for work has been stalled. Basically what it means is that I have very little to do for work in the next 3 months, but I still get paid my salary anywas. So, I'm pretty much on vacation, which is kind of a cool thing anyways. I think I am going to take this time and just hang out with friends and stuff, and get to know myself better. It has been a crazy ride lately, and I have been through so many changes, that I need to just sit back and absorb it all...

CJ

Boys Don't Cry...

Dating. The mere mention of the word causes a physical reaction in some people, and I have often wondered why. Is it because you are putting yourself out there, revealing yourself (at least somewhat) to a person that you barely know? Or is it that feeling that maybe this one will be THE ONE? Maybe a lot of us are scared of dating because it is a risk. Think about it... you go out with a person who in most cases you barely know, and you try to get to know them better. If you are anything like I am, you don't just jump into bed with them (well most of the time). You tell them about yourself, ask them about themselves, and hope that they don't bore you to death, and that you don't annoy the hell out of them. Sometimes you get lucky and find that person that fits the bill, but in most cases, dating just sucks.

Needless to say, my date earlier did not go as perfect as one might have hoped. True, Ryan is gorgeous, intelligent, and pre-med, and will make somebody very happy one day. Unfortunately, that person is not me, because you see, there is one tiny problem... Ryan is also the most boring conversationalist that i have ever come across. Now I realize that a lot of this has to do with me. I really have no interest in medicine the way he does, and I am not sure I even know what the hell lacross is, but those were the main things he wanted to talk about. He isnt THE ONE, which I really already knew, partially because he is only 19 years old (I know, don't even say it!), and also because I deserve to be with somebody that wants me for me, that can appreciate the great qualities that i am sure i have somewhere.

And just in case anyone is wondering, no I didn't come home and drown myself in terribly bad for me food, I just came home and relaxed, listened to music, and read some. I'm fine that the date didnt work out, and it doesnt mean I am going to quit trying. Life is great right now, and I don't NEED somebody, but sometimes, it would be nice to have somebody. So to those lucky enough to be in love with somebody that loves them back, cherish it, because it doesnt happen everyday, and I should know.

Now I am off to finish my book and fall asleep.

CJ

A Question of Lust

So remember the other day I talked about the hot Starbucks guy totally hitting on me? Well this morning as I was getting my Sugar Free Nonfat Iced caramel machiatto with no caramel or whipped cream, he asked me out! So, in about 30 minutes I will be heading out to the movies, and we will see how it goes. I spent a half hour trying on clothes, trying to find the perfect outfit... and then settled on jeans and a t shirt LOL

Well yesterday I hung out with some friends in another city, which was very cool. Have you ever hung out with people and you are talking and the next thing you know, several hours have passed? well that's how it was last night for me. By the time I left it was after midnight, and I had a 75 minute drive ahead of me. But I made it home safe and sound and fell asleep early for me, before 3am :D I would do it all again in a heartbeat though, because they are a very cool couple that are both a lot like me, in different ways.

And in response to an email I got from my friend Chloe, the titles of my blogs are not random... they are all song titles that somehow apply. For example, today's title is a depeche mode song that my friend Audrey loves and I happened to have on my mp3 player. Oh yeah, and I rarely use anyones real name, so that if some of my other friends find me here, they wont know who I am talking about... crazy I know, but that's just me ;)

Until later... CJ

Owner of a lonely heart

Sometimes, relationships seriously suck. And when I am reminded of how they can be so bad, it makes me happy that I am not in one right now. Case in point, I have a friend, we'll call her C, who is married to this guy named N. These two were a wrong fit from day one. Seriously, she deserves far better than him, and still she totally adores him. He treats her like dirt, doesnt respect her at all, and it's like she is just blind to all of this.

So, tonight she came over and cried on my shoulder for a while basically bitching about how he isnt working and she is paying all the bills and she wants to leave him. I took all of this with a grain of salt, because i know tomorrow she will change her mind and think she cant live without him again. GRRRR it's frustrating! And WHY do my friends think that I am the God of relationship advice? Hello! Single here... AGAIN... although that is partially by choice. All the good guys are taken it seems. Eh, it's all good...


well it's 2am so i think i should sleep or try to at least. If I cant sleep maybe I will think of something interesting to write. If not, oh well :)

CJ

Change (Will Do You Good)

I must be insane, but I woke up at 430 this morning, then went to the gym. Actually it was cool, set my tone for the rest of the day and totally got me in a good mood. Then I went to Starbucks, where the guy that has been waiting on me all the time for the past 2 years told me I was looking good. Talk about an ego boost!!! it helps that the guy was totally hot.

Work is going good, although sometimes I seriously need a break. I was bombared with emails all morning. But the cool thing is since they all go to my phone, I was able to work while shopping at the mall. Speaking of shopping, I got some kick ass DKNY t shirts and jeans today, at 70% OFF!!! What surprised me though, was that the original retail on the jeans was 145.00... that just astounds me that clothes are getting to cost so much. All in all though it was a good morning.

I also went to the doctor to get my blood test results, an I got a clean bill of health, so that is definitely a plus.

As far as weekend plans go, I dont really have any. I have a project that I need to work on for work this weekend, but I think that tonight I might go out dancing. Even if I cant find anyone to go with, that's okay. I just feel the need to go out and socialize and of course dance my ass off! Strange that I am even considering going out by myself, when months ago I always had to have somebody with me. Well, it just goes to show how much people change. And that, is DEFINITELY a good thing!

The First Cut Is The Deepest

It's a totally random wednesday night for me. I was thinking of going out with some friends, but then they couldnt make up their minds what they were doing, so I stayed home instead. I just felt like having a night where I keep myself company.

So what exciting things did I do tonight? well, I caught up on some work emails, downloaded some music, then proceeded to dance around my house in my underwear while organizing stuff. Oh, and did I mention that they are Armani underwear? yep, I can now buy underwear in xl, so I might as well wear the good stuff! :D Yeah, I know a funny image, but I was in a good mood, so why not?? You know, sometimes being alone is okay. seriously. Speaking of alone, I have decided that while I may be single, I am not alone. I have some really awesome friends that really care about me. Unfortunately I also have some friends that I seriously doubt their loyalty. Maybe it's time to just cut those people out of my life and move on. It's hard though.

So, not going to get down, because I am still in a pretty decent mood. I talked to X earlier today, and even he couldnt ruin my mood. Speaking of him, I seriously think the guy needs to be on some Prozac or something, because he has ISSUES! I think he might have multiple personalities. One minute he is totally ignoring me and blowing me off, then when I dont call him for 3 days he has to call and make sure I am alive. W T F??? I am SO glad I didnt pursue anything permanent with him bceause I have enough issues that I do not need to deal with a guy who has no clue what he wants and has a chronic case of Peter Pan syndrome. And honestly, I dont need a man in my life right now, at least not a permanent commitment. I have friends, and if I dont want to be tied down right now.

Wow, rambling again. Anyways, it is almost 11pm and I am so wide awake, so I think I am going to do something constructive like watch a movie LOL

Until Later

CJ